Friday, November 20, 2015
Thursday, November 19, 2015
Friday, October 9, 2015
Reminder
I am going to write some things, which are pretty obvious
and you might have heard it from me a number of times, but I want you to let
you know all of these things again and again, and I want you to remember all of
these no matter what happens to us, so please go ahead.
I, I have always craved for love and comfort just from the beginning
and if there is anyone who has given me that, it is you.
We fight, we do and our fights aren’t the kind of fights the
others do. Silent fights, which you call it. At times I get irritated and even
you do, but all of that feels worth it at least for me because if there Is
someone I want to fight with in this whole world, it is you.
Both of us may get spontaneous at times, blame each other
but I want us to fight for each other. If we don’t what better way is there to
live?
A note to myself, which is, that running from the situation
and moving away from it won’t solve it, which I always do. I am sorry. But you
handle me, I have you.
We our young and may be things won’t work out the way we
have planned out, but I want us to remain neutral, no hatred towards each other
no matter what happens, no grudges, and most importantly I want both of us to
communicate even if we are in different relationships. We have to, that is
important.
I don’t know about you but I feel I would be needing you in some or the other moment of my life.
I don’t know about you but I feel I would be needing you in some or the other moment of my life.
I make promises, and when I break them. I want you to
understand because even I haven’t expected it in the first place to break it.
Shit happens and so did this.
We have to know our limits and no matter what happens we
shouldn’t cross them . We should never abuse each other.
We need to be honest to be with each other, regardless of
what the opposite side would think, because if we do, it is for our good only
and we would be happy .
Yes, this isn’t a contract. I don’t own you. You have your
space and you can do whatever and whenever you want. But when I tell you to not
do something, at least consider it because I know what the other side would be,
and which would not be good for you.
I should never ever get possessive for you, because it may
ruin our days together.
Whatever happens over time, we are one. You have to be there
for me and I have to be there for you.
Things would get rough. Situations would change and may be
even both of us also, but I hope reminders like these would help us get back to
our core and remind us that we have to be together no matter what happens. :)
Tuesday, September 29, 2015
We crave for comforts.
We all our visitors or you can say travellers on earth, each
and every one of us. Our heart already knows where we want to go, it knows our
destination but it doesn’t know how to get there. We, only we can dig our own
ways or routes to our destination. Some of us are very much driven to their
destination that they give up everything to reach their. Some are there who
aren’t bothered to get there and want to sit idle and want to watch the time
pass by. But most of us, want to get there, we also are driven but we enjoy
comforts. We aren’t ready to leave our comfort zones. This includes myself, I
am very much hesitant when it comes to push myself and leave my comfort zone.
Happy souls live lonely lives.
What is being lonely? Is it being alone in a room? Or is it just being alone? If this is so, then why people feel so lonely even when they are surrounded by people. Loneliness is a mindset, something in your mind, which you have to let go. The hard part is letting it go, you cannot easily do it. At first, loneliness will seem like a nasty thing, it will make you drown in emotions and pull you down to your knees. You won’t have enough courage to get back up. So you stay, be patient and wait till it is over and one fine day everything seems to be alright. But, trust me; once you’ve learned to live alone, it is like a drug. You won’t ever wish to be with people. You would love to be alone. Do your own thing, live your own life. Bonus, there is no one to judge you too. This is the reason why happy souls live lonely lives.
Thursday, September 24, 2015
Why people will love you?
One of the simplest ironies of life is that you will always try to impress people around you in some or the other way. You will always want people to love you and for that you will do things that you haven’t planned to do in first place.
Be it the quotes or be it someone telling you to not live to impress other people but you will always do that. I know some people who live with the ideology that they are not on this planet to impress other people but they still flatter, and give false compliments to people just so that they could be in the good books of people, so that they can be loved. They jump around on their socials posting things which aren’t obvious and are just there to manipulate about how they are.
I personally feel these are all the secondary ways and aren’t real in any way to get people to like you or to love you.
Then what
really is the thing by which people get attracted to you? Or seem to like you
more than the others.
Work, yes
work is the thing which defines you. What do you work on? Do you play a game
professionally? Or you are a Youtuber? Or you do research about things? It
doesn’t matter, what matters is if you
work on something or not. This is the thing which gains respect in people for
you, what you work on. It can be any work, even if it is as small as sketching
things it means something to people around you. In anything in which you put
efforts from your heart is work, everything else is secondary.
I play
Badminton. I have many friends and every 4 out of 5 friends of mine are somehow
connected to Badminton. Well, what does that mean? For me it simply means that
playing Badminton has helped me make an image, which has helped me getting more
friends because I am being recognized now.
So, basically what I think is, work is everything for you. You have to work, work on some or the other thing for better a life.
So, basically what I think is, work is everything for you. You have to work, work on some or the other thing for better a life.
So work
people. Work on something. Don’t just sit idle.
Although sometimes it’s okay to sit idle but not all the time.
Sunday, August 9, 2015
The friendship that begins in school leaves a very deep impact on almost each and every one of us. The time you spend with them, all the fun, all the pranks, all the jokes will always be one of our best memories. The more new friends you make, the more you start missing the old ones. I have always had great friends in my school time but a number of them have always been special to me and will always be in future. One of them is Danish.
Danish is the first genuine friend I had in Mumbai. We met in 7th standard and after that we have been very good friends till now. Now Danish is someone who came with a blaze and was very much popular almost among everyone, be it the teachers, students of our class, students of the other class and of course girls too,(he will never accept this) all of this because he was very good in studies. We used to sit together for some some months when he first came. I always used to ask him “How are you so good at studies man? “and in reply he would say “Bhai , I never was good in studies right from the beginning. I used to get poor grades in my primary classes. I have started studying now only, so don’t think I am scholar material” to which I would laugh and say “Yes, yes. I know”.
A very talented individual, he was equally good in sports as he was in studies . He was very short tempered at times, his anger was something which cannot be faced by anyone, although now he has gained control over it and is completely fine. When he was made the monitor of our class not a single one of us used to mess with his decisions, and if we did, we all knew the outcome. Although we never had long phone calls, shared secrets, talked shit, we pretty much know each other very well.
Danish, you’ve been a very special friend of mine and will continue to be. Thank you for helping me out when I needed you ,thank you for sharing the two Parathas with me, thank you for giving me your notebooks to complete mine on time, thank you for letting me sleep in the Hindi period, and finally Danish, thank you for being such an awesome friend. Thank you for being there in my life.
"Danish is a part of my life"
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