We crave for comforts.

We all our visitors or you can say travellers on earth, each and every one of us. Our heart already knows where we want to go, it knows our destination but it doesn’t know how to get there. We, only we can dig our own ways or routes to our destination. Some of us are very much driven to their destination that they give up everything to reach their. Some are there who aren’t bothered to get there and want to sit idle and want to watch the time pass by. But most of us, want to get there, we also are driven but we enjoy comforts. We aren’t ready to leave our comfort zones. This includes myself, I am very much hesitant when it comes to push myself and leave my comfort zone. 

Happy souls live lonely lives.

What is being lonely? Is it being alone in a room? Or is it just being alone? If this is so, then why people feel so lonely even when they are surrounded by people. Loneliness is a mindset, something in your mind, which you have to let go. The hard part is letting it go, you cannot easily do it. At first, loneliness will seem like a nasty thing, it will make you drown in emotions and pull you down to your knees.  You won’t have enough courage to get back up. So you stay, be patient and wait till it is over and one fine day everything seems to be alright. But, trust me; once you’ve learned to live alone, it is like a drug. You won’t ever wish to be with people. You would love to be alone. Do your own thing, live your own life. Bonus, there is no one to judge you too. This is the reason why happy souls live lonely lives. 

Why people will love you?

One of the simplest ironies of life is that you will always try to impress people around you in some or the other way. You will always want people to love you and for that you will do things that you haven’t planned to do in first place.
Be it the quotes or be it someone telling you to not live to impress other people but you will always do that. I know some people who live with the ideology that they are not on this planet to impress other people but they still flatter, and give false compliments to people just so that they could be in the good books of people, so that they can be loved. They jump around on their socials posting things which aren’t obvious and are just there to manipulate about how they are.
I personally feel these are all the secondary ways and aren’t real in any way to get people to like you or to love you.

Then what really is the thing by which people get attracted to you? Or seem to like you more than the others.

Work, yes work is the thing which defines you. What do you work on? Do you play a game professionally? Or you are a Youtuber? Or you do research about things? It doesn’t matter,  what matters is if you work on something or not. This is the thing which gains respect in people for you, what you work on. It can be any work, even if it is as small as sketching things it means something to people around you. In anything in which you put efforts from your heart is work, everything else is secondary.

I play Badminton. I have many friends and every 4 out of 5 friends of mine are somehow connected to Badminton. Well, what does that mean? For me it simply means that playing Badminton has helped me make an image, which has helped me getting more friends because I am being recognized now.
So, basically what I think is, work is everything for you. You have to work, work on some or the other thing for better a life.

So work people. Work on something. Don’t just sit idle.  Although sometimes it’s okay to sit idle but not all the time.