Is it okay to be Single?

Days back. I started this blog and my very first write up was "It is okay to be Single".

Honestly, I wrote that just to gain peoples attention. Now that I'm being true to myself, I see that. But a statement back then has became a question now. Is it really okay to be Single?

A part of me says, yes it is. Because when you are in a relationship you are too much into the other person initially. You don't care about yourself and that is something which I did and that resulted possessiveness in the relationship, which was then the major cause of the end of it.

You'll experience some unbearable mental pain in a relationship, because it is very painful when someone you like fights with you or things aren't good with them. It will be very hard. But you'll get better after sometime and things will get better.

You experience a different kind of pain when you're single and a different kind, when you're in a relationship. True, that both the kinds of pain makes you stronger. 

Being single you go through the pain of loneliness, the pain of not being accepted by anyone, the pain that no one is there for you anymore. This kind of pain isn't so painful comparatively but it lasts long and comes back and every now and then. What you gain? You gain so much by this pain. You start to love yourself. You learn that no one gives a shit what you do and no one actually cares and it is pointless to waste your energy thinking what they might think of you. You set goals, you do things because there is time, you think about your future. Such things benefit you, but the kind of pain you experience in a relationship just makes you stronger emotionally and gives you an idea to how to deal with such situations in near future. It won't make you better in any way, it won't shape your future neither it is gonna help you achieve your dreams.

Exceptions are still there and all in all these are my thoughts and you're free to agree or disagree. As I said before, you need to realize that no one gives a shit about what you do, what you think or what you feel.